as an european citizen, I don't think there is a good and a bad side, I think they are all wrong (I mean governments) and responsible for this war.
I hope this is obvious for everyone : European Union right now can't have a united military strategy, because USA is rooted deep inside some EU countries, wich refuse to talk about an EU army. They prefer to "externalize" their defense and let USA take care of everything...Poland is one of them, for exemple.
If Russia, eastern and western europe countries are allied, they can rule themselves and have some influence in the world, instead of USA and China..."Big Europe" would beat them all in terms of industry, military, economics, natural resources, demographic, etc...Not a good deal for the other players , so I think it's kind of easy to guess that europeans, including Russia, are driven to war by their rivals, to make europe weaker.
USA are currently the kind of ally I wouldn't wish on my worst ennemy...In 2014 they succeded in taking over the biggest industrial company of our country, called Alstom. The head of the company was coerced into selling to General Electric. During a negociation journey in the US, US government put some of Alstom "strategic" workers in jail, in order to force the CEO to sign the deal. The CEO testified on record later.
We have the number, they have heavy weapons and armor, soooo...we just loose every time. Clearly you can rule a country without the people's consent, you just need to check a few conditions. Like control over the information, cut the police from the rest of the population, have full control over justice and tribunals, and keep the wealthy part of the population happy, for exemples.
As other forumites already said, if I boycott Russia's products now, I have to boycott every product from every country led by murderers in their government...I am afraid that's almost all of them...including my own. So no boycott for me, but I always buy from musikding, and I guess the boycott choice is in Klaus's hands.
I can't believe we have to worry about nuclear missiles right after covid...Life is so full of surprise, isn't it ?
My thoughts are with the Ukrainian people, I hope war will end very soon.