The Ebb and the Flow - Does this happen to you?

BuddytheReow

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Life comes in waves. There's always an ebb and a flow. Yes, we love this hobby, but sometimes life gets in the way sometimes and we need to put this on the backburner.

Life situations aside, I find myself playing nearly everyday for a good month or two with NO time under the iron. I remember right when COVID happened I was playing/practicing probably about a good 3 hours everyday. Mornings were practice routines: scales, arpeggios, chords, a dash of theory thrown in there. Lunch break at work (was working 100% remote at the time because of COVID) was "learn a new riff or solo". Then after work I would just jam out and go through my repertoire from memory. I got pretty good, but I was still a basement player.

Then I started building pedals.

VERY little time was being put back into playing. All I wanted to do was solder and make things. A few months go by and I realize that I haven't put in the time with my 6 strings and my chops started going south. I didn't care.

A few more months go by, a few dozen breadboard or stripboard builds later, and I start losing the "high" of circuit making. So then I go back to playing for a while. Then I lose interest slowly in playing. Everything sounds so boring and routine...

Then I bought a bass...

A new instrument and new skill set! I practice nearly everyday for at least an hour, thinking like a bass player and trying my hardest not to think like a guitar player learning bass (here's the secret: less is more with bass).

That was the beginning of last year. 3 months go by and life starts getting in the way with a new job that, in hindsight, was a bad decision on my part but that's in the past. Little playing or circuit building has happened. You may have noticed my contributions here were minimal. I was just too burnt out...

Then I found another job this year. And that's when new life was breathed into my hobbies again.

TL/DR

I guess what I'm saying is that I'm either building up my calluses or making circuits. Never both simultaneously. Maybe it's ADD or maybe that's just who I am. Anyone else have this experience?
 
I can’t imagine that we all don’t go through cycles of both time (availability for life’s non-essentials), interest, and energy. I know I sure do… (and in some cases, disposable income)

I’ve had the same basic “hobbies” since I was a teenager, and have seen the decades roll by with waves of interest in one or another of them keeping me up at night with excitement, as I learned (or just wondered about) new aspects. (Was just reading about banjo head heights, after I was given an old Harmony 5 string open back on Tuesday, and am realizing that I know nothing about how to set up a banjo…)

What surprised me, in my retirement, was that now with almost unlimited time to explore my interests, they still seem to ebb and flow.
 
This has been killing me lately. Specifically for bench time.

I am going through a period where I realize that I experience noise in my life a little differently than other people. I have a hard time balancing stimulus and that has been making my hobby time very hard to manage. This might be linked to more stress at work or yadda yadda yadda... I just feel very slow when I build and I can't seem to accomplish anything. Whenever I get time to do something I find myself blocked by one or another impasses. This then causes frustration and even anxiety about something that I thought I enjoyed.

I am coming off of a small break where I had to try and get life and fun organized and learn how to approach this hobby specifically in a more organized fashion.

For me the goal is that I shouldn't stress about the hobbies that I am or am not doing. If something is on the back burner then it probably belongs there for a reason and I don't want to be anxious about getting back to something that I only started because I wanted to enjoy it and learn.

Maybe this isn't quite the same as you meant but that is where I am at and I think it applies.
 
Same. I started diving back into pedal building, amp building, etc... about two years ago. I think I've picked up my guitars maybe 1-2 times to play in all that time, except for testing the gear I've built. I've actually been contemplating selling most of my guitars/amps.
 
If I want to build I build, if I want to play I play. Depends on what I feel like doing with my spare time 🤷 you guys guys just indecisive?😩
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I watch everybody's posts and watch the ebb and flow. I worry about some of us at times but it always seems to right itself or some people just drop off. Sometimes that's not a bad thing in that it triggers another avenue: playing music or just going in an entirely different direction.

In my case I've had a chance to really take a hard look at why I do what I do. Playing in a church exposes me to a severely limited range of sounds, where even 3 years ago was the exact opposite. I still build like crazy just because I love the freedom but in terms of actually using the stuff...I need a compressor, delay, and thick reverb. That's it.

Not complaining because I also have a renewed vision of my function. I spend hours practicing for a 3 or 4 song set every week just to absolutely NAIL it. I mean I can play these tunes in my sleep. It's driven me to totally understand my little Yamaha guitar and all it's little nuances and take what few effects I use and milk every drop out of them. So even though I can cover any scenario, I cover the one I need to...and throw myself totally into it.

In the meantime, if this genre embraces triggered filter or massive wall of fuzz. Who's your daddy?
 
I have weeks where I'm making stuff and weeks where I'm playing. Often on the days where I'm building I'll have an hour at the end of the day for testing/playing/tweaking. That's the fun bit. When I got into motorbikes I spent a lot of my time repairing/customising my bike which was a huge amount of fun - and quite a bit of $$ too. It didn't leave much time for amp or pedal building.

Recently my "need" for trying out different overdrive pedals has receded a little because I have come up with a design which suits me so well everything else sounds redundant! But I still get curious, and friends ask me about pedals so I'll build one to see what they're like. And while I have built a few delays and reverbs they don't interest me as much as overdrive. I imagine that eventually building pedals will be a more occasional thing.
 
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