If any of yall saw in the concert thread, this was supposed to be my big week for concerts. Concerts are one of the only things I really enjoy anymore, and usually I go to a bunch each year. This year the selection has been incredibly lean, and ticket prices have made it even leaner.
I wound up missing the Thursday concert because of the weather, and then last night was Outlaw. During Dylan’s set the couple behind me was loudly talking about crypto for the first 9 songs or the set, and after I asked them to quiet down a bit the girl got super pissy and started screaming “I’m not here to see Bob Dylan” and “I paid the same to be here as you, I’ll talk as loud as I want to” and “if you didn’t want to hear people talk, you should have bought more expensive seats, c**ksucker”. Of course security told me talking isn’t against the rules, and when I said she was getting up in our faces and yelling at us (not to mention using slurs), they said they’d ask her to quiet down but wouldn’t kick her out or anything. Went down after bob’s set to see if gust services could move us, and they said too bad since it’s sold out. She made it a point to be an ass during the Willie set too, but only by making comments between songs and clapping as aggressively as possible right next to my ears when she thought I was trying to take a video.
I’ve been going to jones beach my entire life bc it’s one of the only venues near me that actually gets acts I want to see, but this year and last year the audiences have been way too drunk, loud, and combative. I think after this year I’m done with Jones Beach. Fuckin sucks that it’s come to this.
It’s kinda got me feeling burned out today, and I don’t even really want to go to the city for the Lost 80s Live show anymore. My girlfriend isn’t able to go tonight, and I couldn’t find any friends who wanted to take her place, so it would just be me and my parents. They’re not really into general admission stuff, so they’ll just be off to the side where you can hear but not see anything. I don’t know, I just feel like after last night, I’m gonna be anxious the entire time and not be able to enjoy it, and I only really know one song by each of the artists except flock of seagulls, and I feel like I could probably see them on their own some time in the future. I don’t want to let the assholes win and ruin for me some of the only stuff I still enjoy, but at the same time the circumstances aren’t lining up how I’d like, and I don’t know if it’s really worth the discomfort of 9 hours of nonstop standing in the heat just because I don’t want to feel like the year has been a bust.