How was your summer.

The only reason it's a problem is because everything in our society is designed for neurotypical folk...

...Because we're treating the symptoms of a sickness that our hyperindiviualistic society is too afraid to face:

That Capitalism, as it currently exists, is destroying our planet, our bodies, and our minds.

But as much as I may desire a different world: I gotta live in this one and make my wage just like everyone else. Drugs help with that.
You summed up my thought process exactly. I wish I didn't have to justify my existence and value through being able to get a regular job and making money for someone else while I get a small portion of the value I create... but that's the pressure society has placed on me, my family has placed on me and even I have placed on myself to some extent. It's not even a conscious choice, it just comes with living in the, "current year."

I am glad to have a space like this forum where I can engage in my niche and slightly weird niche interest without the inherent expectation that I somehow turn my hobby into a business.

I am also lucky that I'm in Ireland and I have better access to ADHD meds, because damn I have never felt like my mind was at ease until now. That being said, they're still exporting a lot of the drugs that are made in Ireland to the USA because they can afford to charge more for it over there, especially because the supply is so artificially constrained right now.
 
Warm. Very warm. With humidity and 68f dew point on the side dish.

And I'd take capitalism any day over slavery-ism which is what socialism is. Ask anyone from Russia in the 70's. They told you what you could eat, where you would live, what you would do for a living and you cannot own anything. The government owns *everything* including your liver if someone more important that you needs it. Remember, you can vote your way into socialism, but you have to shoot your way out.

I appreciate ya. I like ya. I don't think you're dumb. I just want to say that before I say this next bit:

I would argue that the issues with the USSR had a whole lot more to do with autocratic rule and unflinching dedication to a singular worldview, to the extent that the powers that be in the USSR would not respond to feedback from the real world.

Trofim Lysenko, for instance, completely disregarded the science of genetics and natural selection. He was quite influential in the USSR in the 1940's and his ideas about agriculture were put into practice. Those policies helped contribute to a pretty brutal famine that killed *tons* of folks from the USSR. His ideas were based on pseudoscience and kowtowing to a leader who was known for having folks murdered that he didn't particularly like.

The problem was not their economic system. The problem was dictatorship with no means of feedback from the real world, nor a method to air grievances given to the population. In that sort of scenario, a leader can simply surround themselves with yes-men and zealots who continually tell them that "yes boss, everything is great. Laaaa dee daaa".

Socialism does not mean that one cannot own anything, it is simply an economic system in which the means of production are controlled and owned by the workers. We have plenty of worker-owned co-ops around the USA: nobody there is being forced into slavery. I am a Union member, which is based on the socialist idea that I own my labor and that I and my peers have the right to collectively bargain with our employers over things like compensation and benefits. It means that I get to refuse to work on an unsafe job site without fear of losing my means of income.

The USA has gone *hard* on the idea that socialism is evil for quite some time now. Its what I was taught in school. Hard to square with the fact that our capitalist-based healthcare system is the most expensive in the world and yet has the worst health outcomes of high-income countries. Or the fact that Social Security, a socialist program that acknowledges the fact that a person's value extends beyond the wage that they are compensated with for a job that they performed, has survived the last hundred years.

Slavery it is not. The loss of all property rights it is not. Unrestrained capitalism would have no issue with slavery, though: Capitalists throughout our history have spoken at length about how much more important property rights are than human rights. It's really quite problematic.

I say all this not to shame, or to offend, or to upset. Slogans (You can vote your way into socialism, but you have to shoot your way out) are quite good at propagandizing a population and turning them against an idea, especially when that idea has been distorted and misrepresented by those who have the most to lose from an economic system that doesn't allow those same individuals to siphon surplus value from their employees.

We disagree. Basically. And that, to bring it back to the original point of this thread, IS WHAT IM DOING WITH MY SUMMER GODDAMMIT. I'M DISAGREEING WITH PEOPLE FROM BEHIND A KEYBOARD.

ITS TOO DAMN HOT!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Hahaha, I kinda like the turn it's taking.

Btw, I'm mostly positive that I too have ADHD.
 
You remind me of my friend who has a masters in history, works as a specialist in industrial plumbing automation, goes on rants about how fucked up society is, has a cynical yet facetious personality, and for a hobby designs panels with his cnc machine and builds custom control consoles.
 
And I'd take capitalism any day over slavery-ism which is what socialism is. Ask anyone from Russia in the 70's. They told you what you could eat, where you would live, what you would do for a living and you cannot own anything. The government owns *everything* including your liver if someone more important that you needs it. Remember, you can vote your way into socialism, but you have to shoot your way out.
i suspect this guy doesn't wonder every 12 months if he's going to have look for somewhere else to live and/or sell/store all belongings to go live in a car. because that's the current reality of not owning a house.
 
At the risk of over sharing, rock bottom mental health, subsequent broken bone, brokest I've ever been in my life, and several other related factors to the aforementioned
Not over sharing, nothing to be ashamed of. Do you have some kind of support right now?
 
This was an odd summer for me. Lots of highs and lows. Works has been outrageously busy, even with hiring someone full time I have worked close to 60 hours a week for months and feel super burned out.

My girlfriend graduated nursing school, passed her licensure and started working as an RN. We managed to do it without any loan debt.

We moved out of our terrible holes in the walls, moldy, 85 inside with the AC on slumlord ran rental. Also our cars would get broken into every year most recently the night of my girlfriend’s graduation. We bought what is the nicest house I have ever lived in. It’s crazy I still feel like I’m in someone else’s house everyday and don’t belong. Hoping the rates come down soon.

Also I think the former landlord might be trying to sue me or maybe just intimidate me as I’m pretty certain the things they are asking for are not legal in California.

As for neurodivergent people as that seems to be the actual topic here. I think it’s likely that they designed and shaped much of the world as we know it. It think it’s sad that they often struggle to find their place in it.
 
@DailyDovetails congrats on the new house and getting out of a nightmare-sounding rental situation! Hopefully the new house means more space for loud activities!

In this thread: people who put pedal building on pause while working through some intense summers! Glad to see so many folks coming back though, either because things are turning around or maybe just because this place is a friendly distraction.
 
I spent 3 weeks in Italy with family and a bunch of locals and I very seriously want to move there for good. I'm already starting Italian courses. Italians actually live their lives, socialize, eat well, visit their friends, neighbors and family all the time, and I could go on and on.

It doesn't hurt that I'm an EU citizen.

P. S. To all those fantasizing about the virtues of socialism, or much worse, communism: I have lived your dream, and it's an absolute nightmare. I was born and raised in communist Romania, I know what I'm talking about. When comparing pros and cons of social systems, all you need to consider is this: Korea was one country. Germany was one country. Then they both split in a communist side and a capitalist side. After several decades, night and day! And they started the same. 35 years after reunification, Germany is still not quite done fixing its East. Think Porsche versus Trabant.
 
Holy fuck, it’s hard to fathom the intensity of this thread. I love all you folks for what you bring almost daily and while I piss
and moan about my own situation I had no idea that any of you were facing these kinds of struggles. It sounds a tad shallow right here right now but I pray for you.
 
Hey, I have a million dollar house and $500k in the bank. I worked very hard for that. In socialism, a doctor gets paid the same wage as someone that watches TV all day. Ergo, the shortage of doctors.
 
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