I told him he was not welcome at our house anymore. I didn't want him to have any contact with my family or myself again, and if he threatened to beat my wife up again that one of use would be going to jail and the the other the morgueSo... how did you get the 4 year hiatus in the first place ? Those toxic people are hard to shake off...
Oof that sounds rough. Glad you set proper boundaries.I told him he was not welcome at our house anymore. I didn't want him to have any contact with my family or myself again, and if he threatened to beat my wife up again that one of use would be going to jail and the the other the morgue![]()
Well imagine how I felt when my grandmother who had dementia amongst other health problems passed away 2 years ago and my mom and sister didn't tell me, but went to the funeral. After they dismissed my feelings now I'm not talking to them either. You don't get to pick your familyOof that sounds rough. Glad you set proper boundaries.
Not my headache but this reminds me of a friend who was raised by his grandparents because his actual parents were drug addicts. He came out when his grandfather had alzheimer's. He had "WHAT!?!?! YOU'RE GAY?!?!" printed on a t-shirt. The funniest part of that story is when he recants his grandfather asking why the hell he was wearing that.Well imagine how I felt when my grandmother who had dementia amongst other health problems passed away 2 years ago and my mom and sister didn't tell me, but went to the funeral. After they dismissed my feelings now I'm not talking to them either. You don't get to pick your family![]()
This is the crazy combo build of cat furniture.View attachment 81728
Yup. We had a huge maple tree that started leaning at the house. I decided to use some of it to make a cat tree before having it taken down.
There's a "log cabin" on the bottom left and a summer house with a terrace on the right. Catnip dynamite sticks hang throughout.
That sucks. When they delivered our new fridge they got it damaged so we had to send it back. Then our oven panel didn’t work and we had to send that back too. New appliances are great but also suck.Oh hey, I have a new headache today. We've been saving up and finally splurged for all new kitchen appliances that just got delivered Tuesday. Yesterday I come home from work to find that the brand freaking new fridge is 62 degrees inside and the freezer is 42 degrees. Power is on, the temperatures are set low, the "demo mode" is turned off, but the compressor is not even coming on and everything is just getting warmer. It's obviously under warranty, but repair won't get here until next Tuesday. I could get a replacement from where we bought it, but the soonest that could get here is Wednesday.
Headaches.
Fortunately our new range and dishwasher have been great, it's just been the fridge. My wife is at home doing triage on the affected food to see what needs to be thrown out and what we can fit in our garage fridge.That sucks. When they delivered our new fridge they got it damaged so we had to send it back. Then our oven panel didn’t work and we had to send that back too. New appliances are great but also suck.