I recommend that you use all of the stock component values.  The NSL-32 should work fine as long as it's fast enough.  If it's not fast enough, you'll get a slow release and breathing.  The is nothing you can do to fix that except replace the opto with a faster one.  Have you measured the light and dark resistance?  To measure the light resistance, power the LED side with 9V and a 4.7K resistor in series.  Measure the resistance of the LDR side.  Should be <10K.  Now remove the power from the LED side and watch the resistance reading go up.  The faster the better,  Should get above 1M in a fraction of a second.  We want >2M dark resistance.
		
		
	 
My Delegate is getting close to the finish line, and I need to select an LDR.
I came here for looking for some tips, and I'm guessing that "The faster the better" comment is probably the key?
I have GL5528s, KE-10720s, and KE-10715s on hand.
I tested some samples of each - all took my meter out of range at 4M when I hooked them up and shut them in a drawer, although they took different amounts of time to get there.
GL5528s passed 4M fastest at around 1.5 sec 
KE-10720 in 4 sec
KE-10715 in 13 sec
Under flourescent light at workbench height:
GL5528s were between 1.5k and 3.8k with most close to 2.5k
KE-10720 right at 1k/ 1.1k
KE-10715 right at 1.1k/ 1.2k
GL5528 won the race by a mile. The tolerance for light-on resistance isn't great, although I just need one, and I can cherry pick the lowest one if that's the goal.
I did see at least one build report with positive results from a KE-10720, and those were giving me the lowest resistance under light. Is it possible that would be a better pick? Or stick with the speedy ones?