Rin and RL depend on the impedance of whatever is before and after. Ideally you assume 0 for Rin if a buffer or active pedal (with low outpu impedance) is before it, and 1M for RL, as most pedals and amps have 470k~1M input impedace. But, if you're putting this first in chain (connected directly to the pickups), then the output impedance of the pickups will make a big difference.
A lot of calculators ignore Rin and RL and just calculate the RC, assuming low Rin and high RL.
A first-order filter calculator like that will tell you the cutoff frequency where the output is -3db. You'd have to set the cutoff freqency higher that 90hz to get -6db reduction at 90hz.
A 2nd order filter will be steeper, and I believe the cutoff frequency from a calculator tool will be at -6db. The pedalpcb Frequency Interchanger uses 2nd order (or 2-pole) for the highpass filter (Sallen & Key style).