I’ve always assumed/ hoped there were a few low-key ladies among us. Shout-out to you! This is one of the more welcoming corners of the internet I’ve come across, and while I don’t know that I would out myself if I were in the gender minority, I do like the idea that this isn’t a totally gross place to hang out.
If I had to guess, I bet we all like an “awesome build dude!” comment but I also take note and appreciate when folks don’t assign a gender to folks with an ambiguous presence. It takes an extra second to think about, but it’s a nice gesture.