I suppose you do have me dead to rights on the passive aggressive thing. I give you that. I was indignant that my difficulties were being explained away as just being too new here.
In my defense, I originally was puzzled that the board was illustrated with only part references (R12, C15, etc) but no BOM and no Build doc. The explanation was that the board will actually have values printed, which would minimize the need for docs.
When it arrived, it still had undefined pads which is where I jumped in. In the absence of any doc, that's kind of difficult to work with. When the "you're just supposed to know" started coming up, that's when my blood pressure started coming up. I sometimes do have a short fuse and can be impatient. I apologize for that.